Jo and David's

Atlantic Canada Swingers Parties

Are Single Men Welcome

Frequent Questions

Are Single Men Welcome?

Due to poor behavior of some single men we have no choice but to modify the terms under which men join the site and attend our events.

Yes, Single Men are welcome with some restrictions.

  • If the party is advertised as a "Couples and Singles" Party, then we allow 5 single men to attend.
  • If the party is listed as a "Greedy Girls" event we allow up to 2 times as many men as there are ladies on the guestlist.

Any restrictions on the age or sexuality of the male guests will be noted on the guest list page.

Changes in our policies from February 1st 2023

We have had it mentioned to us that the ages of the single men seems to be a bit high.

Most of the ladies looking for fun are looking for younger men, either of a similar age to themselves, or younger.

The younger ladies are not looking for men who remind them of their fathers or grandfathers, and some feel quite uncomfortable that they are being hit on by men much older than themselves.

We have had a look at the guest list for the last couple of parties and the number of single men over 50 is quite high.

To address this we are changing the ticket allowances for single men.

If the party limit is 5 men:

  • There will be 3 tickets for single men under 50.
  • There will be 2 tickets for single men 50 and over.

If the limit is 10 men:

  • There will be 7 tickets for single men under 50.
  • There will be 3 tickets for single men 50 and over.

If the limit is 15 men:

  • There will be 11 tickets for single men under 50.
  • There will be 4 tickets for single men 50 and over.

If we have any query about a mans age we will want to see some form of government issued ID showing your date of birth.

After a year of trying to train single Canadian men to show respect.

We have tightened our policy on allowing single men to attend our events.

Reading this you may feel that we don't like single men. The opposite is true, we prefer to meet single men for Jo to play with while David watches, but in our experience of arranging over 20 parties here in Canada we have found the single men are very unreliable. (It is a common issue in every country)

Single men would book to Attend a Party

  • Then on the day decide that they cannot be bothered to make the effort to shower, change and drive to the party.
  • Often the man is not actually single, but married and cheating on his partner.
  • Or they decide it will be more fun to go for a beer with their buddies.

So, due to men blocking spaces by booking a long way in advance, then cancelling at the last moment leaving other guys no chance to make arrangements to attend we now require full payment of the party donation by e-transfer within 24 hours of booking.

  • If your payment is not received within 24 hours of booking, your booking will be cancelled.
  • If you book the same event again and fail to make your payment within 24 hours your booking will be deleted and you will be blocked.
  • Payments are not refundable.
    • However, We will give a refund if for any reason WE have to cancel the event.
  • Single men can sell their place to another single man if they are unable to attend.
  • We will move your payment to a different party only if you request the change at least 5 days before the party you have booked for, and there is availability at the alternate event.

The booking system knows how many places can be reserved for each ticket type at each event. When the maximum number of tickets for single men have been booked, there will be no more tickets available.

The Join button will disappear, and you will be able to join a waiting list. Click Here to see how the waiting list works.

Guys, please do not use a cock shot as your avatar, we will replace it if you do. You can use any image you like inside your profile, but unless you are a dick, a cock shot does not represent who you are.

Your avatar may only contain you or a cartoon representation. It must not contain animals or any other people.


You must always have Positive Consent from anybody you want to play with.

Positive Consent is where they ask you to join them, or where they agree for you to join them by saying yes.

A third party cannot give consent for anyone.

Consent is not open ended. If a person agrees to play with you, the consent lasts until the end of that interaction.

If you want to play with a person again later that evening or at a future event, consent must be given again.

Denial of consent is when the person says No, or where their partner says no, or where someone already in the action says no.

  • No always means NO!.
  • No! never means maybe.
  • No! never means yes if you keep trying.
  • Touching a person after you have been told No is a sexual assault.
  • Consent for rough play is not a given.
    • Do not indulge in rough play unless you have been asked to do so, or the person has verbally agreed to rough sex.
    • Save the scratching, biting, slapping, spitting for interactions with people who have explicitly told you that they enjoy/want to have that type of sex.
    • If someone gets rough say no, if they persist, shout NO or STOP, someone will come and rescue you. 
    • Anyone who gets rough with another guest, or continues after they have been asked to stop will be excluded from the party and the site and banned from all future events.
      • We are serious about this, we have already banned one man for breaking this rule.
  • Only play with people you are attracted to, and who you want to play with.
  • If someone declines to play with you, respect their decision and move on, do not get upset. The lifestyle depends on people being adults and only playing when both parties are attracted to each other.

Sex is not guaranteed!

  • We are a swingers party.
  • Swingers do not pay for sex.
  • Swingers do not charge for sex.
  • Sex only happens between people who are attracted to each other.
  • We do not employ or pay people to provide sex for our guests.
  • Our guests are not escorts or prostitutes. We do not allow anyone to pay for, or accept payment for, sex at any of our events.
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